Key questions to ask before moving a parent or older loved one into your home

Multigenerational living is becoming increasingly common in today’s housing landscape—especially in North Metro Atlanta communities like Cherokee County, Cobb County, Canton, Woodstock, and surrounding areas. Families are discovering the benefits of shared support, stronger relationships, and cost savings. But before you welcome an aging parent or older loved one into your home, it’s important to understand exactly what the transition will involve.

As a Seniors Real Estate Specialist® (SRES®), I’ve helped many families navigate this meaningful shift. While multigenerational living can bring connection and purpose, it works best when everyone has clear expectations and a plan that supports comfort, safety, and harmony.

Below are the most important questions to consider before combining households.

1. Will Everyone Have Enough Personal Space and Privacy?

A successful multigenerational home gives every family member room to breathe.
Ask yourself:

• Will your parent have a private bedroom and bathroom?

• Are there quiet spaces for rest and relaxation?

• Will your family still have areas to gather without feeling crowded?

Even simple adjustments—like converting a bonus room, finishing a basement, or redesigning a layout—can make a big difference.

2. Are Expectations Clear Around Caregiving, Finances, and Household Responsibilities?

Before moving day, have open, honest conversations about:

• Daily caregiving roles

• Sharing household chores

• Financial contributions

• Medical care and support needs

• Transportation, meals, and routines

Clear expectations prevent tension and help everyone start on the same page.

3. How Will Your Lifestyles, Values, and Routines Blend?

Each household has its own rhythm.
Consider:

• Sleep schedules

• Noise levels

• Parenting styles

• Diet and cooking habits

• Social routines

• Religious or cultural practices

Blending lifestyles takes understanding—and sometimes compromise.

4. What Safety or Accessibility Changes Might Your Home Need?

Even if your parent is independent today, future needs should also be part of the plan. Consider:

• Grab bars in bathrooms

• Zero-step entrances

• First-floor bedroom options

• Walk-in showers

• Wider hallways or doorways

• Adequate lighting and motion sensors

• Non-slip flooring

These updates help make your home a comfortable, long-term solution.

5. Are You Ready for the Emotional Realities of Caregiving and Shared Space?

Combining households isn’t just a logistical shift—it’s an emotional one.
Think about:

• Your relationship dynamics

• How caregiving might affect your time or energy

• Changes in independence—for both generations

• How conflict will be handled

Preparing emotionally is just as important as preparing your home.

Making Multigenerational Living a Success

The goal is not simply to “add another person under your roof”—it’s to blend households in a way that supports everyone’s wellbeing. With the right planning, communication, and home setup, multigenerational living can bring incredible benefits, connection, and peace of mind.

Need Help Planning Your Next Step?

If you’re considering multigenerational living, downsizing, or moving a loved one closer, I’m here to help. As an SRES® Realtor, I can guide you through:

• Assessing whether your current home is suitable

• Identifying safety and accessibility upgrades

• Finding homes that offer in-law suites, main-level living, or secondary dwellings

• Navigating financial, emotional, and logistical considerations

💬 I’d be honored to support your family as you explore the best path forward. Click this link for the website: https://kellifinney.com/